Relationship Potential Horoscope for "FT"

A few basic rules:

Relationships according to Mars, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune and Pluto are rather difficult to interpret. Also the subjects with these constellations tend to have rather complicated relationships to which their own complicated behavior contributes and it often leads to disappointment. The 5 remaining types of relationships (constellations with Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus and Jupiter) are much easier to manage.
The smaller the number of the emphasized forms of relationship with 7 or more points, the clearer and less contradictory a person's ideas of a relationship – the easier for them to find a suitable partner. On the contrary, the bigger the number of the emphasized forms of relationships (with 7+ points), the more complicated emotional or love life. Such a person tends to have rather unclear, unrealistic or contradictory ideas about their significant other which makes it harder for them to be happy in a relationship.
The points assigned to each of the forms of the relationship tells us about their intensity and importance. Of course, all of us have something of each of the ten types of relationships, but their tone and intensity differ from person to person – you can see it when you look at the points.

Love Relationship according to MARS – A Passionate Relationship

CHARACTERISTICS: In this type of relationship the need to confront one's partner plays the key role. It can manifest in various ways depending on the level of development of an individual. The main reason may be that the bearer of this constellation wants to continually improve by identifying their own weaknesses, or the weaknesses of their partner. Also the ancient rivality between genders may be engraved deep inside this person, it can come from the family or the social environment. This person finds it difficult to bury the hatchet and live in a peaceful atmosphere. If we look even closer, they do not really want to do that. They love action in their relationship and need to constantly add sparkle in it. They need to feel activity, energy and passion, especially in this area. This relationship may resemble horse racing where each participant wants to prove better than their rival. This competitive undertone may have stimulating effect on the relationship, but it is not always pleasant.

Another aspect of this relationship is the need to constantly refresh passion, because sexuality is very important to this person. If the initial sparkle fades out, this person unconsciously tries to return the relationship to the previous level. The cohabitation then looks like this – after plate smashing the couple ends up in bed. The conflicts, provoking or mutual teasing adds the sparkle to the relationship, otherwise this person becomes bored or even starts looking for another partner.

This person's feelings are very volatile – unpredictable and full of twists, yet they are very powerful, because they have an ability to love passionately. They fall in and out of love equally quickly. Especially in young age, these people find it difficult to stay with just one person for a longer time, but these whims usually get supressed as they grow older. Love at first sight is experienced frequently and makes this person behave instincitvely and irrationally. The heart wins over the brain. The majority of this group immediately jumps into a relationship and just then starts to consider the situation – this sort of explains their problems with staying in a relationship in younger age (mentioned above).

The planet Mars is connected with snappishness and anger – this person's partner often becomes the victim of their agression or the other way around. It depends on whether this person is dominant or submissive. Usually the agression is divided equally between the couple, both of them are capable of attacking each other, but the type of agression varies according to the level maturity of each of them. If the couple is mature, the agression will manifest as taunting or irony, in some cases verbal attacks, but in the more instincitve couples it may end up even in physical violence. An extreme, yet not rare manifestation of this constellation, is directing anger (caused by one's own life fails) to their partner.

An ideal partner for this person is an active, courageous, decisive and wild person who emits power and energy. Some are attracted by sportsmen, soldiers or policemen and some by assertive managers, businessmen or even streetfighters. Knightly behaviour which characterises the bearers of this horoscope is very appealing as well as the feeling of safety and reliability they can create in their partner – and they usually find a partner who can offer the same in return. This person can be very determined about following their goals. They are not afraid to fight for their love which can be quite impressive – these efforts rarely pass unnoticed. In some cases, we could talk about the Don Juan syndrome, deriving pleasure from the conquest while aiming the Amor's arrows directly and efficiently.

In this type of relationship one should realise the need to supress the unconscious tension between the opposite sexes and learn to prevent hastiness. This tension should be transformed into something creative, for example art. Since their instincts tend to be animal and rough, these people should continually improve their self control and learn to be thoughtful to the others – to care not only about their own passions but also listen to their partner. And the other way around, their partner should be able to accept their above average sexual needs and comply with them.

SUMMARY: The person with this constellation needs direct confrontation with their partner in order to increase their self-confidence (or decrease it, thus motivating this person towards self-improvement). They expect their relationship to be passionate all the time which makes them unconsciously try to constantly add spark to it. The partner is perceived as a rival based on the ancient tension between genders. Yet, this person must realise that despite seeing their partner as a fictional opponent, it is unnecessary to treat them fairly and thoughtfully. The tendency to immediately fall in love and jump into a relationship needs to be controlled, this person should learn to think before an act in order to avoid hurting either themselves or their partner. They generally invest lots of energy into their relationship and expect to get the same in return. Often it does not happen, because their significant other usually has not got that much life energy. The bearer of this sign should not be angry with them because of that, on the contrary, they should be grateful that their partner serves as sort of a lightning rod for their excessive energy. They like to mix their own wishes with their partner's ones, which could be acceptable in case they find a golden measure between what can actually become reality. It is essential to learn to listen to their partner and stop caring about one's own wishes only, thus preventing the elephant in a china shop effect. Since this person often posseses rather rough animal instincts, their partner (love) is the means by which they can learn to harmonise and exploit these. On the other hand, their knightly behaviour may be impressive – they can defend their love in ay situation.

Love Relationship according to NEPTUNE – A Relationship through the Rose Coloured Glasses

CHARACTERISTICS: In this type of relationship the main role is played by fantasy and dreams. It is hard to keep oneself grounded when it comes to love. Excessive idealisation of one's partner can be quite dangerous. In the beginning, these people always see their partner through the rose coloured glasses. We could compare it to a caricature of two drunks approaching each other thrilled by each other's newness. They cannot see each other's faults yet or they consider them minor (it comes all later, after sobering, there comes quite a hangover). They seek unbinding closeness and crave for personal conversations in which the participants perceive each other as spiritual beings rather than actual humans and share mutual understanding. These people are attracted by strange and unusual atmosphere in which they feel like a fish in water, but it gets worse if they come back to reality. Just like the fish, they cannot breathe and soon start to smell. It is quite easy to catch such a person , you just need a pink worm on a hook (the false promises this person likes so much). It is very important for them to get at least a little bit of ethereal love. They also need their partner to stop asking them stupid questions – on the contrary, they need space for their own secrets so they will not have to lie. On the other hand, they tend to have great and unrealistic expectations which may end up in many disappointments.

This person can achieve an ideal relationship with a romantic and nonstereotypical partner. This is why they tend to fall in love with someone they cannot have and perceive them as some kind of a dream image – this way the reality cannot destroy it. They are often attracted by people whom they can idealise, either based on their occupation or their way of life (e.g. a doctor, priest, artist...). The crack in the mask of their loved one through which they can see their human frailty powerfully attracts these people. Their strong need to self-sacrifice in their relationships causes them to fall in love with people who are in need and belong to the margins of the society – alcoholics, narcomaniacs, prostitutes and variously handicapped individuals. In such connections, they find a combination of closeness and unattainability (these low-class people usually live in quite different and incomprehensible dimensions) which fascinates them. They often believe in their own ability to make miracles with their love.

They posses the ability to love other people boundlessly, but in the less mature individuals it may manifest in their inability to stay with a single person for a longer time without being distracted by others who seem interesting. These people are able to fall in love with several people at the same time and are unable to comprehend that this constant oscillation from one to another person hurts them and brings terrible chaos into their emotional life. The more mature individuals are capable of loving several people at the same time too, but they can keep it platonical so they do not hurt anyone. Some even use this ability to self-actualise in the social area.

What they need to learn in their life is to develop their ability to love unselfishly. They can stand being in a relationship where they give more love than they get – they can and should learn to split their heart without expecting the same in return. If they realise this, they can avoid massive disappointments – they are great emotional transmitters, not receivers when compared to the others. No capitalistic theories will be adopted by these people. No one else is so full of love, but the others are actually incapable of returning it.

The desire to merge and to dissolve in the feelings also characterises these people – it helps them achieve mental states bordering on extasy. To love and to be loved is their drug, if they do not have it, they experience unpleasant withdrawal symptoms. In their search for love they are willing to cross the borders of the irrational. They may express their love for a deity (many strong believers and nuns are bearers of this constellation) or an idol.

The negative effects of this relationship can be supressed by completing the mission given by this aspect – transmitting love outside the relationship. For example, these people may work for a charity organisation, shelter, help link or in an occupation in which they play the role of a spiritual messenger and ease others' suffering (e.g. social area, healthcare).

SUMMARY: The bearer of this horoscope unconsciously needs to self-sacrifice in their relationship and needs to dissolve and give himself away. They wish to experience the ethereal love together with their partner which is quite impossible. Instead their partner should try to create an atmosphere of personal closeness and unattainability at the same time, or at least let this person's mind wander as often as possible. The tendency to fall in love with an illusion or a dream rather than with a real person often brings unrealistic expectations and leads to disappointments. Too much idealisation makes this person ignore faults of their loved one, it is important to learn to see the world in a critical way and to keep themselves grounded. Because of their over-developed sense of compassion and the ability to love boundlessly this person tends to start a relationship with people who give the impression of being in need of help or deep understanding. They must learn to tell who really needs and wants help, and who merely abuses them and sucks on their energy – this is their life mission. The naive belief that love can completely change someone who is not willing to change is completely mistaken. Since this person is very gullible when it comes to promises, they should at least learn to insist on other people to keep their promises. These people are more vulnerable than the others and should be careful about giving out their hearts spontaneously. Even if this person experiences lots of disappointment, they must not start lying and pretending out of the fear of being hurt and humiliated again. In a love relationship they must be careful not to let their heart cross the borders and touch different people, because they may hurt both themselves and all of the concerned.

Love Relationship according to MERCURY – A Reasonable Relationship

CHARACTERISTICS: This type of relationship requires communication and verbal understanding, therefore it is very important for the couple to share similar hobbies or at least to be able to discuss their thoughts. The bearer of this horoscope appreciates valuable conversations and needs someone who is at least on the same intellectual level as them, if not on a higher one. They derive their pleasure from sharing opinions or mental processes with other people. Verbal agility games are the source of fun. Sense of humour plays the dominant role in this type of relationship. This person realises that the physical beauty fades away and only the spirit can keep its youth forever. Being clever enough to avoid blind passion – they usually analyse the fresh situation and only if everything seems allright after a thorough examination, they let their feelings grow.

This person's attitude to relationships resembles to the mythologic image of Hermes/Mercury who was considered an adorable villain – he had always been an opportunist but his disarming cheekiness was so impressive even the gods could not be angry with him for a long time. This person creates an impression of being careless and whimsy, which may be quite charming, but they are actually very practical and even calculative. Profit and practicality play an important role, these people of all tend to be interested in whether their love can cook despite their own inability to make a tea. This is why this person prefers neutrality, typical for hermafroditic Mercury. Cohabitation will be full of information, arguments, interesting and often even business-like activities.

An ideal relationship for this person resembles a sibling relationship mixed up with friendship, in which they have enough freedom, simplicity and unrestricting closeness. Typically for an air planet, the partner should be able to provide this person with the feeling of independence and as little stereotype as possible, otherwise this person begins to feel the need to jump from one hobby to another and eventually even from their partner to another person. A superficial observer might get the feeling of aloofness or exuberance, this person seems to take everything easy. But this behaviour is actually rooted deeper than it might seem. Like in real brotherly love – this person knows that despite all their crazes, they cannot actually disappoint their sibling so much they would neglect them (and the other way around), a similar feeling of security needs to be achieved in this type of relationship. This person finds jealousy, manipulation, rivality and other complicated features which add spark to the relationship rather repulsive and prefers a friendly atmosphere free of destructive passion.

Since the mythological predecessor of this person ruled the area of communication, if connected with the planet of love, this person will require their partner to express their affection in a verbal or even written form. Just like the Moon people need to express their affection through tenderness, Mars people need passion and Venus people need gifts – this person appreciates words. If their partner wants to make them happy, they should do it by means of words. These people are good at flattering people themselves, the mature ones may even become able to express their affection through poetry, they are often very talented. The less mature people may slip into pathos saying what the others want to hear in order to cover the imperfect reality.

These people may be attracted by intelligent, smart and skillful people with lively and young spirit, and a wide range of hobbies. According to the Traditional Astrology, they have a great chance to find the love of their life thanks to some kind of correspondence. Nowadays, this could be managed with help of internet chatrooms. Some can be very practical and rationally summarise the strongpoints and the weaknesses of a relationship and come to the conclusion they should stay single, thus avoiding serious relationships.

SUMMARY: The bearer of this horoscope needs to be provided with fresh communication and mental understanding in their relationship, therefore it is very important for them to share the same hobbies or at least daily experience with their partner. The desire to share one's life with someone from whom they can draw various information stimulates this person's mental and verbal abilities, therefore their partner should be at least at the same intellectual level as this person. They do not talk about their feelings before they analyse them, but excessive precautions may sometimes be of less use than it seems (e.g. they may miss an opportunity). Practicality plays an important role in this relationship, the bearer of an air planet does not need to create strong bonds. Rational reasons why to start a relationship must prevail. On the other hand, the rational reasons are not such a problem as it might be in different planetary bonds, because these people do not lack carelessness, a broader picture in mind and humour in their perception of love relationships. In addition, they dislike the self-destructive means of adding spark to relationships (e.g. jealousy, manipulation, rivality...) therefore they do not feel the need to make scenes or to be nasty. They appreciate sense of humour in their partner and the ability to express feelings verbally or in a written form (they are good at it themselves). An ideal relationship for this person is one which resembles a sibling relationship mixed with friendship (and of course intimate life) which offers them a combination of freedom, understanding and unrestricting closeness.

Love Relationship according to PLUTO – Relationship as a Magical Pact

CHARACTERISTICS: In this type of relationship the strong desire to be loved deeply plays the key role. The bearer of this horoscope perceives love as something fatal, magical or ethereal and requires the same from their partner. They are attracted by potential complications in a relationship, because they need passion. They need to face the impossible and tend to make everything more complicated than it really is, yet they ideal is quite simple – the absolute fusion. If their significant other cannot return the feelings in the required extent, they try to force them to, using various sophisticated methods. Such a relationship may turn into a chess game between the mental powers of the couple dominated by an uncoscious need to control each other. The reason for this behaviour may be this person's urge to create an eternal bond between themselves and their partner (or at least a bond which will last until the next incarnation) or their wish to change their partner according to themselves. Using a hyperbole, here we can see a sadomasochistic game with an unconscious consent of both players. Surprisingly, the “masochist” has power over the “sadist” too, because the sadist is literally addicted to them. Sexuality often happens to be the tool to control the partner.

This person seeks perfection in their relationship and wants everything to work at 120%. No other constellation seems to be this demanding. Initially, the bearer of this horoscope always finds something wrong about their partner, because no one can actually meet their expectations. Extremely high demands about the partner are not expressed openly, this person merely behaves in a disgruntled and dissatisfied way, when they are unhappy about something. If they expressed their demands openly, they would have to admit their ideas about the partner's qualities are unrealistic. On the other hand, if their partner succeeds in meeting their expectations at the initial stage, they will admire them and put them on a pedestal, temporarily refusing to see their actual faults and later supressing the feeling of dissatisfaction into their uncosciousness. The monument they have built is being “polished” until they are eventually fed up and all the dissatisfaction pours out of their unconsciousness again. The partner is subsequently flushed away from the pedestal, without this person realising they never asked them to be put on one. Eventually the truth comes out – they loved rather an ideal than their actual partner.

This constellation makes its bearer see their partner either black or white, they either consider him a superhuman or a subhuman, they want them either as a whole or not at all. The most difficult thing for them is to stop putting the people they love into categories. It is hard for them to make compromises and find the golden measure (especially in the later stages of a relationship). From a different point of view, this person is predestined to face border situations. Their emotions can either rise into the ethereal heights or fall into the darkest depths. This configuration brings the biggest intensity of feelings. The feelings are triggered by various extreme relationship experience (e.g. death, violence, threatening, manipulation, passions which drag them into an abyss, or on the other hand asceticism, love beyond the grave, life with a morally pure person...).

This person is predestined to experience extreme situations which serve them as a catalyst for their personal transformation – they can change completely. This is why they attract the kind of people who can actually contribute to this radical change – the people who possess secular, spiritual or mental power or have already undergone some kind of purgatory on the Earth. They range from politicians and mafiosi to teachers, saints, gurus or handicapped people. Everything depends on the level of maturity of an individual. The powerful personal charm and the desire to cross the borders of the taboo attracts these people. Moreover, they hate peaceful atmosphere and unconsciously look for complicated relationships which would provide them with enough tension and passion. Otherwise they will provide it on their own. Since these people are capable of creating extremely strong bonds with their partners, the harder it is for them to break away – or for their partner. When it comes to a breaking-up, either of the couple may become dangerous or annoying because of their inability to accept a failure. The process of breaking-up is usually very complicated and often ends up in hatred.

Again, this person tends to reach extremes in love. Some can become passionate lovers or fanatic admirers, some can become ascetic Among these people we can find both explicitly passionate individuals (nymphomaniacs and satyres) or on the other hand, individuals who project their feelings into spiritual levels.

SUMMARY: The bearer of this horoscope needs to feel deep love. They perceive every relationship as something fatal and need to live in a passionate atmosphere. They wish to know everything about their partner, even sort of dissect them mentally – and offer the same in return. They cannot love partly and offer either whole soul or nothing at all. The relationship should not be allowed to turn into a chess game of mental powers, because it might bring this person to a mental breakdown. These people also should not force their partner to change, because it could destroy their love completely. This person is predestined to be involved in emotional extremes almost all the time, the point is to learn to control their feelings and senses. In a relationship they tend to supress the initial problems (either their own faults, or the faults of their partner), which they need to stop doing or the problems will come back at them later and totally destroy their relationship (possibly even their whole life). This person needs to realise that seeing a relationship in black and white only is wrong and the reality may be much more colourful – which is why they should avoid hurried judgements. The power of the emotional bond with their love is so vast that it makes their relationships serve as catalysts of personal transformations. Their flying high and landing hard depends on that. Breaking-up may be very difficult for either of the couple, because their love resembles a magical pact. The key is to realise that nothing lasts forever and everything eventually comes to an end, so the reality stops being such a powerful shock for them. The best would be if this person started a relationship only if they really mean it. Playing with other people's feelings may be very dangerous.

Love Relationship according to VENUS – A Fairy Tale Relationship

CHARACTERISTICS: In this type of relationship one seeks beauty. Some may be interested in physical beauty, some (the mature individuals) may be interested in the inner beauty of their significant other. Either way, the sense of aesthetics manifests powerfully especially in this area. This person may be very sensitive about changes in appearance of their partner, particularly if they do not like them. Often they hate if their loved one neglects care about themselves. In the less spiritual individuals it may trigger even a feeling or repulsion if they spot their partner dressed in worn out sweat trousers or an ancient shirt. They usually strongly despise the lack of style. The bearer of this horoscope struggles to find good taste, refined lifestyle and culture in their relationship. They will be hardly attracted to a person who knows nothing about fashion or style. On the other hand, the mature individuals may be attracted to people who have managed to find the right balance and therefore they emit peacefulness and harmony.

Since they absolutely hate conflicts and arguments, their need for harmony in a relationship is very strong. They are sensitive about vulgarisms and it is difficult for them to accept aggressive people. They tend to reach extremes in their struggle to avoid conflicts at any cost and often fall back in order to keep peace. They look for a partner among people who are similar to them, thus minimalising the possibility of an encounter with someone hostile. Paradoxically, the bearer od this constellation feels sort of imbalanced, therefore they always look for a counterpart in order to compensate their feeling of unilaterality.

These people treat their partner well and appreciate their qualities. They try to comply with the principe of equality and wants the same in return, they will not tolerate any fights for dominance. They want everything to be beautiful, pleasant and uncomplicated. Some immature individuals may push this too far to kitch and insincere types of connections. The danger lies within their inclination to superficial politeness and empty flattering, they see their relationship through the rose coloured glasses and refuse to accept any failures including breaking-up.

They look for sensuality in their partner, or at least need them to satisfy their needs. It may manifest through the emphasis on the sexual or culinary aspects of their relationship, the less spiritual individuals will be interested in the financial status of their significant other. Either way, money plays an important role – the whole relationship may be based on it, because this person wants to enjoy their life. A caricature of this constellation may be either a gigolo or a gold digger, but these are the extremes. Anyway, this person will definitely be flattered if you express your affection through gifts, and the other way around – this person has a real talent to express their love this way.

In this situation, sharing the values becomes vital, as we already mentioned before, this person dislikes conflicts and this is how they create a pleasant atmosphere. They are aware of their own value and never go for someone lower on the social ladder, they are always interested either in people of the same social status or even of a higher one. They are impressed if their partner shares they taste or hobbies, because it makes them closer to an ideal – the marriage should play the role of a peaceful port with cheesy nighlife.

Sometimes they are possesive about their partner, mainly if they are confronted with a rival in love. In the early stages of their life they may avoid relationships because they fear confrontation or they feel uncomfortable about their own passionateness. If they remain single, it is because they think they have never met a person who would meet their expectations about a good life standard.

SUMMARY: The bearer of this horoscope looks either for physical or spiritual beauty, good taste, lifestyle and culture in their relationship. If their partner neglects care about themselves, they cannot get over it. Since they literally hate arguments and conflicts, they want their relationship to be a calm port in the stormy world. In a cohabitation they feel strong need for harmony and try to keep it at all costs. In order to avoid frequent conflicts they usually look for a significant other who resembles them. The point is to achieve equilibrium through one's partner. Those who lack it prefer difference from resemblance in order to balance out their own unilaterality. They like equality and despise their partner's potential efforts to take over the relationship. This person wants everything to be beautiful, pleasant and uncomplicated, but they should not forget there actually are unpleasant matters which need to be resolved. From their partner they expect sensuality, or the ability to keep up with their needs, either in sexual or financial area which they tend to emphasize. In general, although the economic background of the relationship is very important for them, they should not rely on their partner completely. Sharing the same values is inevitable. This person can tell who is worth a try and rarely makes a mistake in choosing their partner.

Astrology

Wednesday, July 4, 2012