Mars opposition Chiron Synastry

MM's Mars opposition FT's Chiron:


Mars opposition Chiron
The mars person could attack the chiron's weakest points at times and open up old wounds. For example, say you have a bad relationship with your dad. Then you get into a fight with this person and during which they say something like "you're just like your father." Chiron will feel like the mars person is unsympathetic and even cruel at times if there's no positive aspect made by the moon or venus.


In synastry mars squaring or opposing chiron can be difficult to mend wounds from conflicts. It is important to truly be clear how to discuss an upset, as these can create cuts to the heart that do not heal quickly, and sometimes not at all. Also, listen when you argue, perhaps someone is preaching instead of engaging.

Mars opposition Chiron

Between any two planets, an opposition is an exchange. It can become a war, or a partnership. When Chiron in one person’s chart opposes a planet in the chart of another person, the word ‘exchange’ takes on a very specific meaning: each person tends to take on qualities of the other. For example, let us say that one person’s Chiron opposes the other person’s Mars. The Chiron person will become more aggressive, more active, and tend to be somewhat physically attracted to the other person. The Mars person will become more individual, more of a Maverick, and more willing to open up and try new things. This can be a very positive thing, especially if each needs to grow in the area ruled by the opposing planet. If the Mars person needs to get out of ruts, or the Chiron person needs more self-assertion, the relationship can be really fantastic. However, if a person is afraid of the qualities s/he gets from the other---or is already active enough in those areas, the relationship can become extremely uncomfortable for one or both parties. 



Mars Conjunct Chiron: Having your Chiron conjunct his  Mars may bring about his being more aware of his own sexualilty and ambitious drive, (Mars), when he is around you. Wounds may be uncovered were he felt impotent in attaining his goals in life, or felt like he wasn't "sexy enough" around women to whom he felt attracted. This may make him seem very shy or awkward around you because you stir up his memories of "failures" in this area. He may feel that you can see right through this facade and he may seem irritable or uncomfortable around you at times as a result because his defenses don't work around you. 


As far as compability with Chiron and Mars contacts, they are a good indicator that the contact is good for you both. Inspite of how uncomfortable you may make him feel, he probably doesn't feel that you are there to hurt him. For him, it may be nice to feel that he can stop putting up a front and begin to engage in a real relationship with someone who can see him clearly, without the facade, though this may take time for him to fully relax with you. For you, it will be nice to find someone who will allow you to be close to him as himself, without the games.