Composite Neptune Conjunct South Node

There can be a fuzzy, confused quality to the relationship, partly because you never know what it is going to bring to you, and partly because what you receive as a result of being together is difficult to put your finger on. You may find that just when everything is becoming clear and you think you know where you stand something comes along to put your mutual positions together in doubt and you find you are mired in muddy ground again. Shifting winds will seem to dog you and there is almost a quality of intent about it, as if someone were pulling the rug out from under you in revenge for unknown and perhaps only imagined wrongs. Whatever the reasons, it will be difficult to have your feet firmly planted on the ground here, but that doesn't mean disaster, only that you need to be ready to change direction, to bob and weave, to steer with the wind and tack like real sailors instead of expecting to go from point A to point B in a straight line. The more you lean on your expectations, the more you will be disappointed, and the more you look on life as an adventure that will float you to yet unimagined shores, the more likely it will become just that. When life is a dream, you can only dream on, and you may find you have a better grip on it than the rest of the more hard-headed populace.

Excerpt from "Composite Charts- The Astrology of Relationships" by John Townley